Anniversary gifts by year
Enter your wedding date or tap a year to see the traditional and modern themes, gemstone, flower and VIP gift ideas.
Where anniversary gift themes come from
The tradition of assigning materials to wedding anniversaries dates back centuries, with silver (25 years) and gold (50 years) the oldest. In the 20th century, lists were expanded to cover each early year, and "modern" alternatives were introduced to give couples more choice. Gemstone and flower associations followed.
Lists vary slightly between sources, so treat them as inspiration rather than rules. The best anniversary gift still follows the VIP formula: personal, premium and beautifully presented.
Using the themes creatively
- Paper (1st): a love letter, concert tickets, a framed map print.
- Leather (3rd): a monogrammed weekender or watch strap.
- Wood (5th): a custom keepsake box or planting a tree together.
- Pottery (9th): a pottery class for two.
- Silver (25th) and gold (50th): engraved heirlooms and a celebration with family.
Browse more ideas in our gifts for her, gifts for him and experience gifts guides.
Questions about the anniversary gifts by year
What is the traditional 1st anniversary gift?
Paper is the traditional first anniversary gift, and clocks are the modern alternative.
What is the 10th anniversary gift?
Tin or aluminum is traditional; diamond jewelry is the modern choice.
What is the difference between traditional and modern anniversary gifts?
Traditional themes are the older material associations, while modern themes were added later to offer more contemporary options. Many couples mix both.
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